Since the last post, when H had to cancel our afternoon date, we have met three times. On the following Monday after my return from Paris, he invited me for lunch, and we went somewhere near my work. It wasn't enough. As he had to work a little bit more in the house, I proposed … Continue reading Affair or a Relationship?
'That is not a joke, It pshysically hurts' H, texted me that when he found out, he had to cancel our next afternoon. I don't meet H often. We plan our dates for every 3/4 weeks, and we hold tight on it, we never cancel I need to have something to looking forward to, and … Continue reading ‘That is not a joke, It pshysically hurts’
When do you know it is time to divorce? Is it when you can't stand to hear the sound of your spouse while he/she is eating? Is it when you make plans that never include them? Is it when the slightest idea of getting intimate bring you a nausea sensation? Once I read somewhere that … Continue reading When do you know it is time to divorce?
Life is so funny. Yesterday I wrote a post saying how difficult it has been not being able to see H or even having a proper conversation with him on what's app ( where our relationship happens the most). Life has been hectic, and today when I woke up, I thought it would be the … Continue reading Can I say it is Love?
It has been a hard few days. H is busy; I am busy. Even tho we are used to having an afternoon date every four weeks, we usually try to meet between it for lunch or a kiss, and lately seems we just can't find the time. I have explained to you that I am … Continue reading The no so exciting detail of an Affair
I am just awake. I can hear the kids playing in the room next to mine. (You came home late last night) I am naked under the duvet. Lying on my side just imagining/wishing you were here kissing my neck while poking me with your erection. I open my legs a bit so you can … Continue reading Good Morning message to my lover.
Eu moro fora da Brasil em um Pais conservador. Sou casada com um cara incrivel e temos muitos filhos juntos. Vivemos uma vida confortavel financeiramente e eu trabalho full time em uma role que eu amo. Domesticamente falando tudo la em casa eh dividido. Nao existe nada que eu faca que meu marido nao faca. … Continue reading Por que Casamento Aberto?
Outro dia no meu Instagram pessoal eu abordei pela primeira vez o tema Monogamia e Casamento Aberto. para o choque da sociedade patriarcal em que vivemos. O post nao falava nada demais. Comecei a conversa simplesmente perguntando se meus seguidores ja haviam se questionado de onde que a monogamia surgiu e se eles ja viveram … Continue reading Poliamor & o questionamento da Monogamia
Outro dia, em um dos grupos sobre relacionamento aberto do qual eu faco parte no facebook, alguem postou essa ilustracao que eu achei genial e gostaria de dividir com voce. Eu vivo um relacionamento do tipo Don'task, Don't tell, meu marido e eu estamos abertos a possibilidade do outro se envolver com uma outra pessoa, … Continue reading Diferentes tipos de relacionamentos
I want to beg you, as much as I can, dear sir, to be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves like locked rooms and like books that are written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given … Continue reading Live The Questions